It’s Time to Stop Second Guessing Your Parenting
Be confident, and get your kids to listen, obey, and gain emotional control.
Why is every day a battle?
Reasonable requests almost always turn into arguments.
The tug of war is getting old, and it’s hard to know which battles are worth choosing.
Everyone knows parenting isn’t easy, but surely it’s not supposed to be this exhausting.
Your child is amazing, BUT…
Their strong will is making life so difficult right now. Everything needs to be on their terms.
They are smart, their future could be so bright… but their attitude, emotional outbursts, and impulsivity are downright concerning.
Nothing is working.
Forget parenting books and articles – none of those strategies work for your child… consistency, behavior charts, timeouts, natural consequences, rewards… there’s nothing left to try.
Hoping that they grow out of this is too risky, and failing them is not an option.
So, now what? What hope is there?
It feels like nothing will get this child to change. Parents are supposed to enjoy their children… but home isn’t relaxing anymore.
The stress is wearing all of you down. There has to be a better answer.
Parents deserve a straightforward plan that WORKS.
I deliver a plan that is perfectly customized to address your child’s personality, motivations, and presenting concerns. A plan that is not only therapeutically informed, but that’s in line with your family values and fits your lifestyle… not to mention delivers the change you desire.
My online work with parents is the most efficient, effective, and convenient means to lasting change in your home.
Finally, something DIFFERENT!
With my unique approach, I have been able to help numerous families restore the peace to their homes and feel confident in their parenting in a matter of a few months.
Through our work together, you will not only see an improvement in your child’s behavior and emotional control, but you’ll also build your relationship with them and enhance their character.
Give me three months, and I’ll give you the solution
to the peaceful home you are longing for.
Ready to trade your exhaustion and defeat for peace and confidence?
Welcome to Fly on the Wall Counseling!
I’m Jillian Newkirk.
I started Fly on the Wall Counseling because of parents like you.
Parents who love their children, work hard, and simply want to do what’s best for their families. Parents who don’t know what else to try and feel defeated because nothing is working; they fear what their child’s future will look like. Parents who want someone to give them straight-forward answers of what to do, because they just want to enjoy their child once again, instead of hoping one day their child will somehow grow out of this.
I was a child therapist for children with severe behavior and mood disorders… I’ve seen it all. I was good at my job, and my child clients made significant progress in our sessions with diligent work. BUT… things were not changing as much at home.
Why (and How) Equipping Parents Works
Parents, you spend significantly more time with your child during the week than a therapist ever can… which means, when you are equipped with the tools and strategies we use with children, you get results SO MUCH FASTER! I have a keen ability to understand what is truly going on in your child’s mind, reasons behind their behaviors, discover what motivates them, and find ways to get them to do what you want (which is what’s best for them!).
Also, I know that life is busy. Leaving the home is often near impossible. That is why all my services are online… I can be a “fly on the wall” of your home! Online sessions make getting the support you need convenient and allows you to feel more at ease.
It is a joy and privilege for me to partner with families.
I take my role in your lives very seriously. I believe you should never allow just anyone to impact your family. You need to be careful and choose wisely because your children are your most precious possession on this earth. You need to believe that someone can truly help you. Let’s set up a free consultation to see if I can be that person for you.
Is online coaching for you?
How it Works
So you love the convenience of online sessions… but how does it actually work?!
I love that my clients can meet with me in the comfort of their homes, on a lunch break, or on the side of the road, because they were running late completing errands! As long as you have a device with a camera and the internet, we can meet. And you don’t have to be a “techie” either.
